Category: Art of Blogging

  • In Defense of Columnist Mike Royko

    Background: Electoral-vote made a very snide reference to Chicago Tribune columnist Mike Royko and implied that he was guilty of some serious wrong. I ended up sending a protest and receiving a one sentence answer to google his name and AIDS. I did do that, but barely found anything wrong (a complaint in the Advocate, but no smoking gun really). I don’t know what Mike Royko did during his writing or personal life, but he is one of America’s greatest columnists. Frankly, it is getting a little too easy to accuse writers and comedians of being assholes or bigots or sexist pigs. By definition, writers provide color and personality and humor. Mike Royko’s track record stands for itself and outweighs a few complaints about one or two columns. See: this Cspan Book-talk discussion about Royko and this survey about his life and works two years after his death. Holy cow! It turns out that all his columns were digitized into a 2 million word ebook (Mike Royko: The Chicago Tribune Collection 1984-1997)! The price is a little high $11, but no matter how you look at it, you still are going to get your money’s worth.

    I never lived in Chicago and, of course, never knew him personally. I only know Royko through his writings. After his death, I have read about half of Royko’s books with his columns, and for about 5 years in the early 1990s, I read his syndicated columns religiously. His columns were great fun and often perceptive. He used personas and characters to tell anecdotes (which was a pretty common technique at the time—see Jimmy Breslin, Art Buchwald, Molly Ivins and, even more recently, Thomas Friedman and Maureen Dowd, who still do this on occasion).

    My background is mainly in literature, and I confess it’s been at least a decade since I’ve read any of Royko’s columns. And I’m assuming that only his best writings were put into books. Over the years, a prolific columnist is going to say a lot of things that don’t date well or that stir up negative reactions at the time. But aside from a few off-color remarks, I saw absolutely nothing in Royko’s writings which would merit the charge of asshole, homophobe, whatever. He did use personas to voice some uncomfortable truths or attitudes. But any accomplished author knows how to use these personas ironically. The tone of his columns run the gamut, but I was struck overall by the humaneness of his approach to social problems and his sympathy for the little guy.

    Perhaps one can dig up a statement by one of Royko’s characters and find something that would probably seem repellent to the modern sensibility. But that happens often for lots of respected authors. Especially when you are trying to be humorous or satirical or caustic, you run the risk of alienating audiences. Whenever a character somehow doesn’t ring true to the contemporary reader, somehow the charge surfaces that the author was a bigot. More often, it’s just that the character didn’t work or that one particular reader didn’t enjoy or disagreed with that characterization. At the very minimum, these kinds of misses can serve as interesting time capsules for language and attitudes. But I’m always glad that a columnist took chances.

    I never lived in Chicago, so I’m open to the possibility that Royko was boorish in person or at local media appearances. But I don’t think it’s fair to compare Royko with today’s media blowhards. Perhaps he just played the part of public curmudgeon in typical H.L. Mencken style. But I regard many of his columns as literary gems. (And it’s scandalous that his books still haven’t been digitized). While looking up Royko’s Wikipedia page, I was horrified and saddened that Royko died at 64 years of age.

    Perhaps there is information about his biography that I am not aware of. But denigrating Royko for using personas to create dialogues is no better than accusing columnist Alistair Cooke of being MAGA simply because he and Donald Trump shared a love for golf.

  • Personal Snapshot #1

    It strikes me how that I spend so much time documenting things I’ve bought/read/watched/heard that I never bother to mention my personal life even in a rudimentary way. In fact, ever since I read Marilu Henner’s book about preserving memory, I have been keeping an ongoing log of personal life events. Indeed, I have gone back to various years of my past (including my early years) and tried to list events that can serve as memory milestones. My hope is that as I accumulate these milestones, it will be easier to locate other (hidden) memories.

    So at least for the last 5 or 10 years, I have a pretty good log of what’s been going on in my life. These logs are not really a narrative, just a brief listing of big things going on in my life. Sure I could expand on it with opinion and feelings, but I really don’t want to. Maybe someday I will write some sort of autobiography, and these notes will certainly help, but most of these notes won’t make sense to anybody.

    Honestly, though, my current life is dull even for a writer. This doesn’t bother me, but most of my life is consumed with finances, publishing ambitions, dealing with Mom and other family members and feelings of inadequacies for never writing as much as I want to. I more than anyone recognize that publishing is a long term game; it is rare to have moments of success or accomplishment, and whenever they happen, these moments belong to me alone. Most of the world doesn’t care and don’t pay attention. There are interesting things happening to people around me, and perhaps the general act of growing older is interesting, but not interesting enough to blog about for a blog that nobody reads.

    A few years ago I set a goal that I would be publishing a book a year for the next 5-10 years. I have mostly lived up to that goal. Actually so far this goal isn’t that hard because I have just been packaging things I wrote a long while back. For example, this year’s book will be a collection of essays from this blog. (Update: That will have to wait until Summer 2026) Sure, I will need to do a lot of editing and planning, but for the most part everything is already written.

    Next year’s book will be a little more challenging. I’m 80% finished with some humorous stories, and I want to add about 3-4 stories. I have spent all my waking time trying to come up with ideas for the 2026 collection. As it happens, many of my recent story ideas turn out to be too complex or philosophical for so light-hearted a volume. So I have been wasting my time on stories which won’t make it for the 2026 volume Yesterday I came up with some appropriate story ideas for this volume and can’t get to get them done. I am still in story-search mode though.

    I am eager to get to my 2027 book, which is a humorous novel I have written about 60-70% of. Honestly, I can’t believe it has taken this long to finally return to. Frankly personal obligations and financial demands have been big obstacles to progress on that front. It will be my first “novel” and would be good practice for a longer forms. I am trying to make a transition to longer forms which I can publish under my own name.

    This is a very weird time to be a publisher and writer, and it’s unclear which path to success should be pursued. About 20 years ago my goal was to be successful enough to score a teaching job at a university. First, all my publication efforts have been delayed for various reasons. Then it seems like academia is going to hell, and besides, the minimum credential for teaching writing seems to have increased. It now seems that a Phd is a de facto requirement for university jobs, making those kinds of jobs out of reach for me. That has led me to reconsider my goals and frankly to focus on selling and monetizing a lot more than I would have expected. I still have not come anywhere close to succeeding on that front (and in fact, the money chase may ultimately amount to nothing — who knows?) Also, there are larger social forces at work. AI and the decline of books in society have made the writing profession a lot more precarious. I remain committed to writing more than ever. But I still don’t have a clue what I should be doing. And frankly, filling up my blog with these uncertainties and doubts would not make for fun reading!

    I want to talk about humor and comedy. I have written some very funny things in my life, and honestly I would have liked to write for a sitcom or something like that in another life. For the 2026 story collection I am grappling with the reality that I am not as funny a person as I used to and comic ideas don’t come as easily as they used to.

    The biggest problem in my life now is lack of reading. I have always loved reading — I need it, especially at this stage of my life — and yet it seems that I am doing everything but read. Instead, I muck around with blogs and social media and long term writing projects and such. I don’t know how other writers manage to do it.

    So much for this autobiographical snapshot for May 15 2025.

  • RIP Author & Literary Blogger Jake Seliger(1983-2024)

    If there ever was a Pulitzer Prize for blogging, then certainly Jake Seliger would have won it hands down for this year’s blogging….

    On August 7 Jake Seliger died of cancer at the age of 40. He had been fighting it for a while and last summer he made the shocking announcement on his blog that the cancer was terminal and acting quickly. Amazingly, Jake and his wife were able to get experimental treatments to prolong his life, but this outcome was (by his own admission) preordained. Before last summer’s announcement, Jake was a frequent blogger who blogged about literary and social topics. Amazingly, despite his ailments, he blogged harder and deeper than ever before. Some of those posts from the previous year are about his illness — and somewhat hard to read — but often he blogged about the usual topics — as though cancer were just a figment of the imagination. I’ve been busy catching up on his old blogposts — he’s been blogging for over 17 years and will be uncovering some great posts from years past. Here’s a thoughtful post from exactly a year ago — before Jake would travel down that long and harrowing roller coaster ride.

    His wife Bess Stillman has been blogging on Substack during the year as well. When Jake enters hospice, his wife (a physician and also a great writer) talks about how she made her peace with the outcome and reflecting on his death.

    One of the most amazing things about this year is that in addition to all the writing, they have regularly taken selfies of themselves during these awful times. They are a beautiful testament to their marriage and fidelity. It was a pleasant surprise to learn that Bess is pregnant with Jake’s baby. They are at the bottom of their blogposts.

    I left a long message on his final post:

    This last year has been an amazing year of blogging! You have gone to places which I never thought possible (and yet you still have thrown in some “normal posts” as well). If there was a Pulitzer Prize for blogging, then certainly you would have won it hands down for this year’s blogging….

    …

    Back in my late thirties, I was still pretty gungho about web technologies and working in IT. Recovering from a romantic breakup, experimenting with different kinds of storytelling, impatient with the retro-conservativism of the Bush Administration (lord, if only I knew what would be coming later). That was where I was at during that stage of life. I certainly wasn’t pondering mortality or stoicism or anything philosophical. I was rewatching the Blues Brothers, playing around with Python and cameras and trying to read Petrarch. It was shortly after that time that my reading dropped off significantly, though I have picked it up again in the last 5 years or so). In comparison, I feel as though you have traveled around the world several times (metaphorically speaking) while I was still learning how to walk. Of course, nobody could have predicted or sought out your path, and frankly good health and time is a luxury that people take for granted until they can’t.

    …

    I’m glad to hear that Bess is expecting a child. How promising. I’ve been watching the charming TV series on Apple+, Lessons in Chemistry. One of the main characters dies unexpectedly in an early episode while the girlfriend is pregnant. By the end of the series, the baby grows up into a precocious little girl who is driven to find out more about her father (and stumbles upon some amazing insights into the man without ever meeting him). You’ve certainly led a full life — and your wife certainly will preserve your memories. I’m sure that will be enough material offline and online to appease your child’s curiosity about you when she grows older.

    As I said, I know that hospice is the next logical step (and yes, the final one), but from the perspective of a reader and fellow blogger, I feel as though my contact with you and your writing is only just beginning. I can see by the comments how many people your life and words have already touched (and WILL TOUCH). Thanks for generously sharing this last year with readers like me — even when it must have been painful and harrowing and exhausting. Please enjoy the rest of your time as best as you possibly can.

    I am glad I had time to give that final message — which hopefully Jake was able to read. It’s funny. I’ve been blogging for a few years longer than Jake, but I admit I never really felt obligated to post regularly. Sometimes weeks — and even months — have gone by without my posting a thing. In fact I have sometimes questioned the value of spending too much time on the blogging thing. (Similarly, I don’t post too much on social media even though I have streaks where I simply don’t shut up online). Part of the reason is that nobody really reads bloggers anymore (perhaps they never did), and blogging is something you do to document recent intellectual discoveries. I’ve going to be saying a LOT more about this topic in a longer post — stay tuned. Ha, ha, it will be a while before I write this post, but I’m pretty sure I will title it, “The Itch that must be scratched”.

    A year ago I started digging into Jake Seliger’s blog archives, but frankly, it will take a long time to go through everything.

    In the meantime, I’ve been digging through Jake’s blog archives — there’s a lot to discover or rediscover. Eventually I’ll do several megaposts on some of Jake’s literary stuff (which were always interesting and fun to read).

  • A blogger prepares to say goodbye — Links, Links, Links

    [Clearly I will be writing a lot more about Seliger’s blog and related topics. This was something I threw together quickly after hearing the news last year. Here’s my thoughts right after about his death. Stay tuned for my adventures about digging through the archives of Jake’s blog!]

    A week ago I learned the terrible news that Jake Seliger, who ran the great blog Story’s Story blog, was afflicted with a terrible cancer and probably has weeks to live. Jake has been blogging since 2006 (translation: forever in blogging time), and I’ve been following his blog off and on for at last a decade, probably longer. I’ve emailed him several times and we share several literary obsessions and we’ve traded various book announcements. Jake has written two books, and I’m just getting to reading The Hook, which is an academic novel (a novel that takes place at a university, a subject that Jake found fascinating).

    Jake has always been a terrific blogger — and a prolific one too (unlike me). At certain times I used to read his blog every day or so. Then for a while, I stopped using RSS readers and my bookmarks got all disorganized. I totally forgot his blog for up to a year, then suddenly remembered and I was back to following him again (Hey, life is like that sometimes). Even this year, I would forget to check his blog, and then catch up several weeks. I had actually made a mental note to give a longer response to one or two of his posts, but haven’t had time in the past few weeks to do so.

    I don’t want to get too philosophical here, but it’s easy to take the status quo for granted. In the past few years, I had two college friends (Jay and Mary) pass away unexpectedly. I wouldn’t call either one close friends (mainly because these two people were very social people with an active circle of friends, and I was an introvert), but I certainly enjoyed their company, and for a time at college we hung around one another every day. We were in the same circle of friends, so we had a lot of common experiences. I could have spend a dandy weekend with either of them, and we could have had great fun. And I sure felt devastated when they were gone.

    Jake is in his late 30s. He got his master’s and Phd in English fairly quickly and then turned away from academia (presumably because of the lack of job opportunities). But he did a lot of grant writing and even started a business doing that for the last decade. I don’t know how much he enjoyed it, but it’s the sort of niche that people with literature backgrounds fall into, particularly because they can do it so well.

    I don’t really know Jake because I never met him, but I definitely know his blog and his writing style. This page (a work in progress) is going to contain some of the more interesting blogposts from Jake’s two blogs. For now, I just want to provide a series of annotated links (but I won’t be quoting). Maybe I’ll comment on them or respond to individual pieces in a later post.

    About his Illness

    • How do we evaluate our lives, at the end? What counts, what matters? “One estimate finds that about 117 billion anatomically modern humans have ever been born; I don’t know how accurate the “117 billion” number really is, but it seems reasonable enough, and about 8 billion people live now; in other words, around 7% of the humans who have ever lived are living now. I’ve had the privilege to be one.” (RJN: This beautiful farewell essay is designed to say all the important things. It’s really hard to follow that. Let’s see if Jake has the mental space left to post anything more after that).
    • I am dying of squamous cell carcinoma and the treatments that might save me just out reach. Besides breaking the bad news, this post argues for the “right to try” unproven forms of treatment.
    • What it’s like to be married to a dying man by his wife Bess Stillman M.D. A really profound reflection on the inevitability of loss and coping with it. Bess’s medical background ensures that Jake is now receiving the best care available. Bess is quite an accomplished storyteller herself; Her piece How to Say It (Youtube) is about how doctors are trained to talk about death around their patients. (also reproduced in Moth Presents: Occasional Magic which I bought a few years ago). Her Oath story starts with “I was 28 years old the first time I killed a man” (which tells about another the pressure of dealing with patients in crisis).

    Practical Guides

    • How Universities Work, or What I wish I’d Known Freshman Year: A Guide to American University Life for the Uninitiated (2010). Probably obvious to college graduates, this brilliant guide explains a lot of basic things about how colleges work and how to use it fully. (Bonus: Loved the reference to my former prof John Barth). “The biggest difference between a university and a high school is that universities are designed to create new knowledge, while high schools are designed to disseminate existing knowledge. That means universities give you far greater autonomy and in turn expect far more from you in terms of intellectual curiosity, personal interest, and maturity.”
    • How to get coaching, mentoring and attention. This is a great thought piece about why professors ignore certain kinds of students and how to focus on doing stuff rather than simply gaining some academic reward.

    Authors and Stuff

    I’ll be adding to this over time.

    Jake’s Books

    Jake published two novels about smart young adults. After starting The Hook, I’ve been reminded of the sharp satirical style of Tom Perotta — whom apparently Jake has written about and even met!

    • The Hook is a nice novel about a young academic. The Hook explores the love life and career of high school English teacher Scott Sole. Told in a series of short chapters which change from character to character — including a girlfriend who was a former student. Scott takes his job very seriously and is passionate about teaching, yet his private life becomes a topic of interest, especially because of his free-spirited ruminations on his blog. Eventually he is vilified after being wrongly accused by a female student. Reminiscent of Tom Perotta’s Election (both in terms of narrative structure and subject matter), this novel is both realistically told and probably an accurate representation of the unrealistic demands made upon teachers. Under this hypercritical (and hypocritical) eye, it’s hard for single adults (and particularly men) to survive. The novel is a scathing indictment of public morality, but also an interesting look at single life from the man’s perspective.
    • Asking Anna is “ comedy, in the tradition of Alain de Botton’s On Love and Nick Hornby’s High Fidelity, about how the baggage you bring on a trip isn’t just the kind packed in a suitcase.“

  • Facelift is a-coming!

    I have been brushing up on my wordpress knowledge (described here), and a facelift of this site is becoming inevitable. No telling on how long it will take, but I want it to look great, especially because next year I should be coming out with my essay collection Non-crappy things from my blog. It would be unseemly if the ebook came out and the website looked like crap.

    WordPress has become a very complex ecosystem, and frankly the real action seems to be in theming or headless sites or even static site generators. Actually self-hosting seems awfully retro as well.

    Some of these wp plugins are just loaded and add substantial cruft to the code. It’s hard enough trying to figure out the full site editor or modular CSS; but why should a human being have to deal with all the scripts that add minimal value to the site.

    The block editor offers a lot of cool functionality, but it also makes layout somewhat cumbersome. Also, managing media and contact forms is rather cumbersome (though I finally figured it out).